Monday, November 17, 2008

Think about it..

It's true...

We dont know what we've got until its gone..

BUT...

We also dont know what we've been missing until it arrives...

Love..

Sometimes the 1 we luv the most turns out 2 be the 1 who hurts us the most. but still, we shud always remember that falling inluv is not reason enough 4 us to fear luv. the joy comes in luving only wen nothng is expected in return. luv is not all bout happiness 4 we can never knw wat happiness really is w/o experiencing pain. wen u think of ur past luv, u may view it as a failure. but wen u find a new luv, u view the past as a teacher. in the game of luv, it doesnt really matter who won or who lost. wat is important is u knw wen to hold on and wen to let go. u know u really luv sme1 wen u want him or her to be happy, even if their happiness means that ur not part of it. everythng happens 4 the best. if the person u luv doesnt luv u back, dnt be afraid 2 luv sme1 again, 4 u'l nver knw unless u give it a try. u'l nver luv a persn u luv unless u risk for luv. luv strives in hurting. if u dnt get hurt, u dont learn how 2 luv. luv doesnt hurt at all the time. though the hurting is still there 2 test u, 2 help u grow. dont find luv, let luv find u. thats y its called falling inluv bec u dnt force urself 2 fall. u just fall. u cannot finish a book w/o closing its chapters. if u want 2 go on, thn u have to leave the past as u turn the pages. luv is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress. it is a lifetime venture in w/c we are always learning, discovering and growing. the greatest irony of luv is letting go when u need 2 hold on and holding on wen u nid 2 let go. we lose sme1 we luv only wen we are destined 2 find sme1 else who can luv us even more than we can luv ourselves. on falling out of luv, take some tym 2 heal and then get back on the horse. but dont ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw u the first time. 2 luv is to risk rejection, 2 live is to risk dying, 2 hope is 2 risk failure. but risk must be taken bec the greatest hazard in lyf is to risk nothing. 2 reach 4 another 2 risk involvement. 2 expose ur feelings is 2 expose true self,2 luv is 2 risk not 2 be loved in return.Luv is not seeking 4 ur own happiness. its main concern is giving,not taking. it is not bout making sure that d othr persons lyf will revolve around urs. but it is a celebration of each other's existence and being,even if ur totally different frm each other. luv always makes sure there is ultimate honesty and sincerity in the heart as well as respect and honor.Luv goes nowhere w/o faith,hope and trust. Luv is not bout beautiful words.It is about making a firm dcsion and action 2 make the relationship grow strnger each day. it is the willingness 2 exert effort 2 keep the luv alive. Only luv can hurt ur heart,make u cry,and only luv knws y. Smetimes wen we bcme afraid 2 fall inluv coz everytym we do,we get hurt.. thn i figured thats why its called falling in luv..

*..taking one deep breath..*

..Love..

no matter how it sucks sometyms, almst every1 is willing 2 give it anther shot...